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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Carol Tanksley to explore intimacy and sexuality for single Christians—a topic the church often overlooks. Drawing from her own journey through 40+ years of singleness, marriage, and widowhood, Carol unpacks the difference between sex and intimacy, how Jesus modeled deep connection without sexual activity, and how singles can honor God with their desires.
We also tackle harmful church misconceptions, the importance of healthy touch, and practical wisdom for navigating boundaries. Carol leaves us with three powerful principles: stay clean, stay connected, stay consecrated.
To learn more about Carol and her ministry, visit DrCarolMinistries.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Discussion on intimacy and sexuality for single Christians.
- Distinction between sex and intimacy.
- Emotional and physical intimacy needs beyond sexual activity.
- Challenges faced by single Christians regarding intimacy and sexuality.
- Misconceptions within church culture about singleness and sexuality.
- The role of the church in supporting single adults.
- Practical advice for singles to steward their sexuality and intimacy.
- Importance of non-sexual physical touch and healthy friendships.
- Addressing shame and regret over past sexual choices.
- Encouragement for singles to find purpose and connection beyond sexual relationships.
More Resources:
- Sexpectations online course
- Sexpectations* (book) by Dr. Carol Tanksley
- Sex & Anxiety online course
Related Podcasts:
- Being a Single, Sexual Man
- Exploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol Tanksley
- What Are Your Sexpectations?
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Friday Jun 05, 2026
Friday Jun 05, 2026
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!
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In this episode of the Family Time segment,* I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, Director of our Family Care ministry to explore the sixth critical conversation in our series: "Leveraging Your Story." Norma and I discuss how parents can wisely and humbly share their personal testimonies with their children to build trust and connection around sexuality.
We cover practical tips on age-appropriate sharing, avoiding oversharing, and keeping God's redemptive power at the center of the conversation. Norma also shares eye-opening survey results revealing how fear keeps both parents and teens from opening up with each other.
To enroll in our free Critical Conversations online course, visit PureLifeAcademy.org.
For all of our Family resources, including our free Critical Conversations online course, visit Bebroken.org/family.
*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Importance of discussing sexuality from a Christian perspective with children.
- Navigating a hyper-sexualized culture and its impact on children.
- Overview of the six critical conversations in family care ministry.
- Focus on the sixth conversation: "Leveraging Your Story."
- Encouragement for parents to share personal stories and testimonies with their children.
- Building trust, connection, and credibility through vulnerability.
- Importance of age-appropriate sharing and maintaining boundaries.
- Addressing the fear and isolation that can exist between parents and teens regarding discussions about sex.
- Emphasizing God's redemptive power in personal stories.
- Resources and practical tips for parents to facilitate these conversations effectively.
Resources for Next Steps:
- Critical Conversation Online Course (free)
- Father-Son Accountability* by John Fort
- Girl Talk by Ashley Jameson
For more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.
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Wednesday Jun 03, 2026
Wednesday Jun 03, 2026
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!
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In this episode, I sit down with Cat Etherington, Director of Recovery at Naked Truth Project, to explore how addiction impacts parenting and family dynamics. Cat openly shares her personal journey through addiction and recovery, offering powerful insights into how addiction disrupts parent-child attachment and creates generational cycles of shame.
Together, we discuss practical ways parents in recovery can stabilize their family environment, communicate honestly with their children, and navigate the process of rupture and repair. Cat also offers encouraging words about making amends without shame and reminds us that healing is always possible, no matter where you are in your journey.
For more info about Cat and the resources at Naked Truth Project, visit NakedTruthProject.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Impact of addiction on family dynamics and parenting.
- Personal experiences with addiction and recovery.
- Effects of addiction on attachment between parents and children.
- Challenges parents face in recovery, including emotional immaturity and shame.
- Importance of providing age-appropriate information to children.
- The process of rupture and repair in building secure attachments.
- Strategies for parents to apologize and make amends without shame.
- The generational cycle of shame and addiction.
- The significance of open communication and emotional expression in families.
- Hope for ongoing repair and healing in family relationships.
More Resources:
Related Podcasts:
- How Early Development Trauma Shapes Addiction and Relationships
- How Parents Can Leverage their Story of Brokenness to Help Their Kids Pursue Integrity
- How to Move from Anxious Attachment to Secure Attachment
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Wednesday May 27, 2026
Wednesday May 27, 2026
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!
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In today’s episode, I sit down with my good friend Dr. Stephen Cervantes, also known as Doctor Marriage, to explore how wives can recognize genuine change in their husbands after betrayal. We break it down into two key indicators: new language and new behaviors. A truly changing husband takes initiative in his growth journey, developing emotional awareness, practicing patience, managing anger, and seeking accountability and genuine friendships with other men.
Stephen and I emphasize that real transformation comes from a deep, heartfelt commitment to personal growth, not external pressure or just short-term relief from discomfort. It's a lifelong growth mission, and we're here to encourage men and couples every step of the way!
For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Trust issues in marriage following past betrayals.
- Indicators of genuine change in husbands, including new language and behaviors.
- The importance of husbands taking initiative in their emotional and spiritual growth.
- The role of humility and self-awareness in fostering real change.
- Practical steps for husbands to demonstrate commitment to growth.
- The significance of emotional awareness and understanding in relationships.
- The impact of sharing new insights and learning experiences on marital trust.
- The necessity of patience and intentionality in the process of change.
- The value of accountability and support from other men in personal growth.
- The ongoing nature of growth and the importance of a lifelong commitment to improvement.
More Resources:
- Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
- 40 Days of Healing for Wives (online course)
- 1-on-1 Consultations
Related Podcasts:
- The Anatomy of Awakening from Addiction
- Men's Emotional Self-Awareness Test
- How Do You Know if You Are Changing?
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Wednesday May 20, 2026
Wednesday May 20, 2026
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!
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In this episode, I sit down with Dan Johnson, creator of the PATH plan, who opens up about his decades-long struggle with pornography addiction. Dan shares his personal journey, from his first encounter with porn in seventh grade to a pivotal confession to his wife in 2019.
He introduces his practical recovery tool, the PATH Plan — a simple four-step method designed to help men navigate the moment of temptation without shame or giving in to urges. Dan also highlights the importance of community, mental rehearsal, and having strong personal reasons to pursue freedom.
To learn more about Dan and his resources, visit HeisFree.me.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Discussion on unwanted sexual behaviors, particularly pornography addiction.
- Personal journey of struggling with pornography addiction and recovery.
- Introduction of the "Path Plan" as a practical tool for managing temptation.
- Explanation of the four steps of the Path Plan: Pause, Acknowledge, Timer, and High Five.
- Importance of community support in the recovery process.
- Role of mental rehearsal in preparing for moments of temptation.
- Need for strong emotional reasons to resist temptation.
- Common pitfalls faced by individuals trying to break free from addiction, especially in isolation.
- Shift in perspective from battling urges to allowing and feeling them.
- Emphasis on the goal of living a full, rich life in connection with others rather than just achieving sobriety.
More Resources:
Related Podcasts:
- Understanding Man's Inner Sexual Conflict
- What to Do in the Moment of Temptation
- What a Porn Free Day Actually Looks Like (A Practical Walkthrough)
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Wednesday May 13, 2026
Wednesday May 13, 2026
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!
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In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Karla Downing to tackle one of the most challenging topics in marriage — recovering from sexual betrayal. Karla breaks down how fear and anxiety affect both partners after betrayal, explaining the push-and-pull patterns of hyper and hypo-reactivity that can make healing so difficult.
She offers practical, compassionate steps for couples to identify and manage their fears, rebuild trust, and communicate more openly. We also explore how leaning on Christ together can serve as a steady anchor throughout the healing journey.
To learn more about Karla and her resources, visit ChangeMyRelationship.com.
Karla also provided us with a handout for today’s podcast. You can access it at Bebroken.org/anxietyhandout.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- The impact of sexual betrayal on couples' relationships.
- Common fears and anxieties experienced by both spouses after betrayal.
- The emotional dynamics of hypo-reactivity and hyper-reactivity in relationships.
- The importance of recognizing and managing fears in the healing process.
- The role of faith and trust in God during recovery from betrayal.
- The effects of fear of rejection and loss on both partners.
- Communication strategies for expressing fears and emotions.
- Practical steps for couples to handle their fears and promote healing.
- The significance of awareness in identifying and addressing fears.
- Resources available for couples seeking support and guidance in healing relationships.
More Resources:
- 10 Relationship-Changing Principles
- Self-Esteem Quiz
- Change My Relationship* by Karla Downing
Related Podcasts:
- 8 Practical Steps of Forgiveness
- Helping Men Understand a Woman's Grief Process
- How Couples Can Navigate the "Messy Middle" After Betrayal Trauma
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Friday May 08, 2026
Friday May 08, 2026
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!
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In this episode of the Family Time segment*, I sit down with our Family Care Director, Norma Q-Brown, to explore the fifth of six critical conversations parents should have with their kids about sexuality. After recapping the first four conversations, we dive into what to do when your child is exposed to sexual content.
Norma shares practical tools like code words, open-ended questions, and age-appropriate communication to help parents respond calmly rather than react. She also highlights valuable resources, including courses we provide on Pure Life Academy and recommended books, to help parents confidently guide their children through these inevitable challenges.
To enroll in our free Critical Conversations online course, visit PureLifeAcademy.org.
For all of our Family resources, including our free Critical Conversations online course, visit Bebroken.org/family.
*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Importance of equipping children to navigate a sexualized culture from birth to 18 years old.
- Overview of the first four critical conversations parents should have with their children regarding sexuality.
- Discussion on the significance of conversation five: addressing exposure to sexual content or situations.
- Strategies for parents to create a safe environment for discussing sexual content.
- The necessity of maintaining a calm and non-reactive demeanor during conversations about exposure.
- Age-appropriate communication techniques for discussing sexual topics with children of different ages.
- Emphasis on modeling self-control and vulnerability as a parent during discussions.
- Practical tools and strategies for facilitating ongoing conversations about sexuality and exposure.
- Resources available for parents to deepen their understanding and approach to these conversations.
- Encouragement for parents to engage in difficult conversations despite feelings of anxiety or overwhelm.
Resources for Next Steps:
- Critical Conversation Online Course (free)
- Processing Exposure: Ages 8-12
- Processing Exposure with Teens
For more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.
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Wednesday May 06, 2026
Wednesday May 06, 2026
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!
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In today’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Eddie Capparucci to explore emotional regulation as the cornerstone of addiction recovery. Dr. Eddie explains the "window of tolerance," how unresolved childhood trauma drives addictive behaviors, and why true recovery goes beyond just stopping harmful actions.
We discuss how emotional dysregulation connects to relapse, how people of faith can embrace their emotions in healthy ways, and how deeper emotional work transforms relationships, intimacy, and character. Dr. Eddie also shares practical techniques to help listeners begin their emotional healing journey today.
To learn more about Dr. Eddie and his inner child recovery model, visit AbundantLifeCounselingGA.com or email innerchildmodel@gmail.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Importance of emotional regulation in addiction recovery
- Definition and explanation of the "window of tolerance"
- Connection between emotional dysregulation and addictive behaviors
- Role of unresolved childhood trauma in emotional dysregulation
- Misconceptions about emotions, particularly among people of faith
- Practical strategies for emotional regulation in real-time situations
- Impact of emotional regulation on intimacy and empathy in relationships
- Transformation of character through deeper emotional work in recovery
- Differences between behavior change and emotional work in recovery outcomes
- Techniques and resources for practicing emotional regulation skills
More Resources:
- Going Deeper* by Eddie Capparucci
- Going Deeper for Women* by Eddie Capparucci
- Other books* by Dr. Eddie Capparucci
Related Podcasts:
- Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sex Addiction
- Going Deeper for Women: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Love and Sex Addiction
- Why Building Confidence is Important to Recovery
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Wednesday Apr 29, 2026
Wednesday Apr 29, 2026
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!
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In this episode, I sit down with Sam Black to explore the fascinating and deeply personal topic of generational trauma and its connection to addiction recovery in men. Sam shares his own journey with pornography addiction and how it led him to investigate patterns passed down through families.
We dive into compelling scientific research — including studies on worms and mice — that mirrors what Scripture has long taught about inherited brokenness. We also discuss practical tools like self-awareness, emotional regulation, and empathetic parenting to help break these cycles and create lasting healing for future generations.
To learn about some of the recovery resources provided by CovenantEyes, visit CovenantEyes.com. (And if you’d like to try out CovenantEyes free for 30 days, use promo code bebroken when you subscribe.)
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Generational impact and trauma
- Recovery from addiction, specifically pornography addiction
- Transmission of trauma and behaviors across generations
- Environmental and relational factors in trauma inheritance
- Scientific research on trauma and learned behaviors in animals
- Importance of addressing trauma at emotional and subconscious levels
- Self-awareness, emotional regulation, and attunement as recovery tools
- Barriers men face in engaging with deeper recovery processes
- The role of parenting styles in passing down trauma
- Encouragement for seeking healing and support in recovery journeys
More Resources:
Related Podcasts:
- Why We Stay Stuck and How to Move Forward
- How Early Developmental Trauma Shapes Addiction & Relationships
- God's Design for Emotional Growth and Sexuality
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Wednesday Apr 22, 2026
Wednesday Apr 22, 2026
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!
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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Stephen Cervantes to explore emotional and relational growth in marriage. Stephen shares three powerful principles for husbands:
- Giving wives space to express emotions without jumping to solutions,
- Being a calm and reassuring presence to help regulate emotions, and
- Leading with humility to repair relationship ruptures.
Through personal stories and biblical wisdom, we unpack practical ways husbands can show up better for their wives. It's an honest, encouraging conversation that reminds us that strong marriages are built through patience, sacrifice, and Christlike love.
For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Emotional and relational growth in marriage from a Christian perspective.
- Importance of allowing spouses to express emotions without interruption.
- Techniques for husbands to actively listen and engage during emotional conversations.
- The role of a husband as a calming presence to help regulate a wife's emotions.
- Strategies for creating a safe space for emotional processing in relationships.
- The significance of repairing relationship ruptures and managing conflict.
- The necessity of humility and ownership in resolving marital disagreements.
- The impact of forgiveness and reconciliation on marital intimacy.
- Encouragement to practice patience, humility, and sacrifice in marriage.
- The importance of continuous learning and growth in relationships.
More Resources:
- How to Listen to Your Wife
- 40 Days to Oneness by Stephen Cervantes
- Relationship Talking vs. Business Talking
Related Podcasts:
- Keys to Emotional Intimacy: Empathy, Attunement, and Responsiveness
- Men's Emotional Self-Awareness Test
- 4 Skills to Transform Your Marriage
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