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This program tackles the tough subjects of porn, lust, sexual brokenness, and practical principles for living every day in sexual integrity.
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Tuesday Jul 05, 2022
Tuesday Jul 05, 2022
Today’s guest is Matt Wenger, the clinical director of Boulder Recovery in Boulder, Colorado. Matt has a heart for helping men overcome all kinds of unwanted sexual behaviors by addressing the whole man, including trauma from his past.
In today’s episode, we talk about recovery as a means and environment for addressing all aspects of a man: his emotions, spirit, intellect, and body. True recovery is far more than just stopping negative behaviors; it is addressing the overall person to affect healthy personal growth and loving relationships.
Matt shares common elements that often lead a man toward sexually compulsive behaviors and how to heal and discover a thriving life of freedom and joy.
To learn more about Matt and their programs and resources, visit BoulderRecovery.com.
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- Recovery by the Power of God's Word
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Tuesday Jun 28, 2022
Tuesday Jun 28, 2022
In today’s episode, Damon shares a robust definition of marriage, why this matters in both the marriage relationship and the world, and the EPIC intimacy challenge for couples to experience the fullness and beauty of God’s design for marriage.
There are 4 key areas of intimacy for a thriving marriage that Damon discusses:
- Emotional Intimacy
- Physical Intimacy
- Intellectual Intimacy
- Communicative Intimacy
If you want a deep dive for casting a strong vision for a thriving marriage, listen in to this powerful conversation with Damon.
To learn more about Damon and his ministry resources, visit JoyfulEverAfter.org and EpicIntimacy.org.
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Tuesday Jun 21, 2022
Tuesday Jun 21, 2022
In today’s episode, Stephen and I will unpack a number of sexually stupid comments by men. Here’s just a sampling of some of these comments:
- “I will keep it a secret. No one needs to know.”
- “No one will get hurt.”
- “My wife doesn’t desire me, but the other woman does!”
We will unpack some of the immature thinking underneath these statements and offer healthier, more mature ways to think. Our hope is that this episode will help you examine your own thinking regarding your sexual brokenness and take a bold next step toward greater insight and better relationships.
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Tuesday Jun 14, 2022
Tuesday Jun 14, 2022
In today’s episode, Stephen and I draw from Donald Miller’s book, Hero on a Mission, to help you better understand your own story and take your next best step to embark on a mission of growth and adventure.
Every great story has four roles in it:
1. Victim
2. Villian
3. Hero
4. Guide
As we learn together about these roles, we can see how our own stories weave in different ways into each of these roles. And, with help, we can learn and grow from such perspective and analysis.
So, go on a journey with us today to better understand your story and how you can be a hero on a mission and a guide for others in their story.
To get a copy of Donald Miller’s book, go to Amazon.com or anywhere books are sold.
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- How to Know Yourself to Grow and Mature
- How to Experience Excellent Emotional Connections
- Three Purposes in Life
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Tuesday Jun 07, 2022
Tuesday Jun 07, 2022
Today’s guests are Roane and Eva Hunter, counselors and co-authors of the book, Sex, God, & the Chaos of Betrayal: The Couples' Road Map of Hope & Healing - Recovery from Infidelity, Affairs, Pornography & Sexual Addiction.
In this episode, they share their histories of brokenness and the impact this had on their marriage. Through the many ups and downs of their relationship, they gained many insights that they now share with other couples seeking help in their own marriages.
To learn more about Roane and Eva and their book, visit SexGodChaos.com.
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- Rebuilding Your Marriage After Sexual Betrayal
- How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair
- Hope After Betrayal
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Tuesday May 31, 2022
Tuesday May 31, 2022
In today’s episode, our guest Tammy Gustafson shares her story of sexual betrayal in her marriage and the healing and restoration that followed. Through her journey of healing from such trauma, she developed what she calls the Betrayal Healing Phases, which are:
- Reveal
- Rumble
- Resolution
- Rebuild
Tammy wrestled with how to return to God after betrayal, when and how to forgive her husband, and God’s call on her life to help other wives. If you are a wife facing similar struggles, today’s conversation will give you hope.
To learn more about Tammy and the counseling and courses she offers, visit BetrayalHealing.com. For the Betrayal Healing Phases quiz, visit BetrayalHealing.com/quiz.
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- Helping Wives "Detach with Love" in a Difficult Marriage
- Helping Wives Recover from the Aftershock of Sexual Betrayal
- Online Care Groups for Wives
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Friday May 27, 2022
Friday May 27, 2022
This episode is a special bonus. Our guest is Matt Riley, the development director of our ministry. Matt will share his story of sexual brokenness and addiction and the recovery road he has traveled.
Story is a core value of our ministry. It matters to know that others have experienced some of the feelings and challenges we too have faced. This is why we want you to hear Matt’s story – that you might gain some hope and insight into your own story and discover next steps that will help you keep going on your own journey.
You can connect with Matt at 210-822-8201 x108 or by sending him a note/question on Contact.Bebroken.com.
Helpful Resources:
- Abba's Child by Brennan Manning
- Worthy of Her Trust by Jason Martinkis
- Secrets by Jonathan Daugherty
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Tuesday May 24, 2022
Tuesday May 24, 2022
On today’s program, we have one of our fan-favorite guests back with us, Dr. Eddie Capparucci. Eddie is certified as a licensed professional counselor and certified in treating sexual and pornography addiction. He is the creator of the Inner Child Model for the Treatment of Sexual and Pornography Addiction and the author of multiple books and workbooks.
Today our conversation focuses on his newest book, Why Men Struggle to Love: Overcoming Relational Blind Spots. In this book, Eddie identifies 14 blind spots in men that can prevent them from building healthy love relationships. So, if you are a man who wants to understand the deeper issues of recovery beyond just behavioral sobriety, this conversation will benefit you.
To learn more about the book and get a copy, visit StrugglingMen.org.
More Resources:
- Men.Bebroken.com
- InnerChild-SexAddiction.com
- Growth Map by Stephen Cervantes
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- 3 Levels of Sobriety
- Do Your Emotional Beliefs Lead You to Connection or Disconnection?
- About Your Emotional Connecting Skills
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Tuesday May 17, 2022
Tuesday May 17, 2022
In today’s episode, Stephen and I share multiple comments from men who are on the journey to pursue greater integrity. Some of these comments are:
- “I know what’s wrong with me – it’s me!”
- “I’m 75 years old and no one wants to go to lunch with me.”
- “All my life I’ve hidden behind God and spiritual truths, but I’m not emotionally mature.”
- “There is pain in recovery. It feels like hope and it sucks at the same time.”
- “Why do I have to change? I don’t want to.”
- “Growing up, no one was there for me. So now, how can I show up for anyone?”
Our hope in sharing these comments and the insights behind them is to help men better understand their own integrity journey and hopefully get some ideas for how to take their best next step. If you would like resources that help men grow in purity and faith, visit Men.Bebroken.com.
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Tuesday May 10, 2022
Tuesday May 10, 2022
On today’s program, our guest is Mandy Majors, founder of Next Talk and author of the new book Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World: A Solution that Works.
Our discussion highlights some of Mandy’s personal journey with her daughter on this subject and the three main sections of the book:
- The new problem we face.
- A solution that works.
- 10 practical things to do to implement the solution.
If you are a parent (or grandparent) who wants encouragement and real-world insights that work, tune in to what Mandy has to share.
To learn more about Mandy and their ministry resources, visit NextTalk.org.
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