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In this episode, I continue our three-part series "A Parent's Response Matters" with Family Care Director Norma, exploring three powerful letters from the RESPOND acronym. 

We dive into Sincerity over Silence, encouraging parents to stay honest and engaged even without all the answers. Then we explore Patience over Punitive, reminding us that calm correction builds stronger connections. Finally, Opportunity over Obstacle challenges parents to reframe difficult moments as God-given chances to teach and grow. 

Norma's practical wisdom makes these principles feel totally achievable, and her challenge to try just one shift this week is something every parent can do!

*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Navigating the sexualized culture from a Christian perspective
• The acronym RESPOND as a framework for parental engagement
• Sincerity over Silence in communication with children
• The importance of being honest and open about not having all the answers
• Patience over Punitive responses when addressing children's mistakes
• The role of calmness and empathy in correction
• Opportunity over Obstacle for teaching and relationship-building
• The significance of reframing interruptions as moments for growth
• Practical tools for parents to engage sincerely and patiently
• The broader application of these principles in all relationships, not just parenting

Resources for Next Steps:

• Critical Conversations Online Course
• Processing Exposure with Teens Online Course
• Just Between Us Parent-Child Journal*

 

RESPOND VS. REACT REMINDERS

R - Respond over React

E - Engage over Evade

S - Sincerity over Silence

P - Patience over Punitive

O - Opportunity over Obstacle

N - Nearness over Neglect

D - Divine Perspective over Diluting Truth

This episode (Part 1) covers R-E, Part 2 covers S-P-O, and Part 3 covers N-D

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In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I sit down to have an honest conversation about something we all face: temptation. We tackle the myth that some people are beyond it and share practical, emotional, and spiritual tools to help resist it. From asking sobering reality-check questions to speaking powerful affirmations out loud, we explore how small daily choices shape our lives. 

We also dive into integrity, discipline, grace, and the pursuit of genuine peace over secret shame — walking alongside our listeners on this ongoing journey toward freedom and wholeness in Christ.

To get more daily insights from Stephen Cervantes, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Universal experience of temptation and its impact on individuals.
• Strategies for resisting temptation, including practical, emotional, and spiritual approaches.
• Importance of integrity and making choices aligned with personal values and faith.
• Reflective questions to consider during moments of temptation.
• Consequences of secret sins on relationships and personal integrity.
• The fleeting nature of pleasure from temptation versus long-term pain.
• The role of discipline in achieving freedom and a fulfilling life.
• The significance of envisioning future impacts of present choices.
• The concept of grace and ongoing personal growth in the face of temptation.
• The pursuit of peace, rest, and joy over a life marked by shame and secrecy.

More Resources:

• Everyone Gets Tempted (blog post on DoctorMarriage.org)
• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
• How to Resist Temptation: 7 Practical Ideas

Related Podcasts:

• Dealing with Temptation Podcast Bundle
• Breaking Free with Russell Willingham
• Pure in Heart - So Much More than Just Saying No

 

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In this episode, I have back on the program Melissa Macomber to explore the often-overlooked impact of parental infidelity on adult children. Melissa shares her personal journey of discovering her parents' affair as a teenager and how it shaped her into adulthood. 

Together, we discuss how secrecy, family roles, and betrayal affect trust, relationships, and self-expression later in life. Melissa also introduces her online program, Authenticity After Family Betrayal, offering hope and community to adult children still carrying this hidden pain. Her message is clear: healing is possible, and you are not alone.

To learn more about Melissa and her online program, visit MelissaMacomber.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• The impact of parental infidelity on adult children.
• Personal experiences of discovering parental infidelity and its long-term effects.
• The reasons parents may choose to withhold information about infidelity from their children.
• Emotional and relational challenges faced by adult children of parents who have cheated.
• The role of secrecy and denial in family dynamics and its effects on trust.
• Common coping mechanisms and family roles adopted by children in response to infidelity.
• Differences in sibling reactions to parental infidelity and its impact on their relationships.
• The connection between childhood experiences of infidelity and adult relationship patterns.
• Strategies for adult children to establish healthy boundaries with their parents.
• Support programs and resources available for adult children dealing with the aftermath of parental betrayal.

More Resources:

• Authenticity After Family Betrayal (online group starting September 8, 2026)
• How Keeping Secrets About Your Parent's Infidelity Stresses Your Brain
• Melissa's Research on Parent Infidelity and Its Effect on Adult Children

Related Podcasts:

• Understanding the Impact of Parent's Infidelity on Adult Children
• Why Do We Cheat?

 

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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Matt Burton to explore intimacy avoidance (IA) in men and its impact on relationships. Dr. Burton breaks down what IA really means — a subconscious self-protective pattern creating emotional distance — and shares key behaviors like lack of empathy, stonewalling, and blame-shifting. 

We discuss root causes, including childhood trauma and attachment issues, and Dr. Burton outlines a holistic path to healing. He also shares hope for men feeling overwhelmed, emphasizing that real change is possible. 

To learn more about Matt and Laura and their resources for men, wives, and couples, visit BecomingWellInstitute.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Definition and explanation of intimacy avoidance (IA) in men.
• Common patterns and behaviors associated with intimacy avoidant men.
• The impact of lack of empathy on relationships.
• Differences between sympathy and empathy.
• Underlying causes of intimacy avoidance, including family trauma and attachment issues.
• The emotional experience of intimacy avoidant men and their capacity for love.
• The role of maladaptive coping strategies in intimacy avoidance.
• Strategies for partners of intimacy avoidant men to maintain emotional health.
• The process of treatment and recovery for intimacy avoidance.
• Importance of relational recovery and the involvement of partners in the healing process.

More Resources:

• Men's Intimacy Avoidance Recovery
• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive
• The 12 Steps to Becoming Well from Intimacy Avoidance for Christians*

Related Podcasts:

• 4 Skills to Transform Your Marriage
• About Your Emotional Connecting Skills
• Keys to Emotional Intimacy

 

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In this episode, I sit down with Brad and Heidi Mitchell, a couple with an incredible story of restoration after 43 years of marriage. They openly share how they overcame Brad's adultery and rebuilt their relationship through faith and prayer. 

We dive deep into why so few couples — even Christians — pray together regularly, exploring the fears and barriers that hold them back. Brad and Heidi also walk us through their book, Build Your Marriage With Prayer, a powerful 40-day journey designed to help couples develop a meaningful, lasting prayer life together. 

No matter the state of your marriage, this conversation can help you catch a vision for a pathway to a deeper, richer connection with your spouse. 

To learn more about Brad and Heidi and their resources, visit BuildYourMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Importance of prayer in marriage, particularly praying together as a couple.
• Personal journey of the speakers, including challenges faced in their 43-year marriage.
• Impact of past adultery on their marriage and family.
• Role of faith and prayer in restoring their marriage.
• Common barriers and fears couples face when trying to pray together.
• Statistics on the correlation between couples who pray together and lower divorce rates.
• Development of a meaningful prayer life as a couple after experiencing a crisis.
• Insights from their book "Build Your Marriage With Prayer" and its 40-day journey.
• Transformation stories of other couples through prayer.
• Encouragement for couples to start praying together, including practical tips.

More Resources:

• Build Your Marriage with Prayer*
• Ruined to Recovery: Help When the Affair is Discovered*
• 40 Days to Oneness

Related Podcasts:

• Let's Pray
• Lord Be Near: Finding Hope in Suffering Through Prayer
• The Immanuel Approach in Recovery

 

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In this episode of Family Time*, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, in the first of a 3-part series to explore how parents can RESPOND thoughtfully rather than react impulsively to their children. Norma shares practical tools like pausing, naming emotions, and shifting to shame-free language. 

We also dig into the difference between engaging and evading difficult conversations, reminding parents that connection always comes before correction. Whether you're navigating spilled juice or tough questions about sexuality, this episode offers real, grace-filled guidance to help you build stronger, more trusting relationships with your kids.

*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Importance of thoughtful responses to children's questions and behaviors
• Distinction between reacting impulsively and responding thoughtfully
• Building strong parent-child bonds through connection before correction
• Practical tools for parents: pausing, counting, and naming feelings
• The impact of language on children's emotional responses
• Engaging in difficult conversations rather than evading them
• The significance of showing interest in children's lives and activities
• Strategies for effective engagement and communication with children
• The role of humility in repairing relationships with children
• Encouragement for parents to view challenging moments as growth opportunities

Resources for Next Steps:

• God's Design Curriculum
• Critical Conversations Online Course
• Just Between Us Parent-Child Journal*

RESPOND VS. REACT REMINDERS

R - Respond over React

E - Engage over Evade

S - Sincerity over Silence

P - Patience over Punitive

O - Opportunity over Obstacle

N - Nearness over Neglect

D - Divine Perspective over Diluting Truth

This episode (Part 1) covers R-E, Part 2 covers S-P-O, and Part 3 covers N-D

 

For more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.

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In this episode, I sit down with Linda Stewart and Linda Noble, affectionately known as "the Lindas," who share their passion for helping parents navigate conversations about sexuality through the theology of the body. We explore how parental shame can block open dialogue with children and why humility and curiosity are essential tools for healing. 

The Lindas remind us it's never too late to start these conversations and share practical resources, including their book Before the Sex Talk, to help families build a foundation rooted in God's beautiful design.

To learn more about The Lindas and their resources for parents, visit TheConversationWorkshop.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Understanding God's design for sexuality and the human body.
• The impact of parental shame on discussions about sex with children.
• Encouraging open and healthy conversations between parents and children.
• The importance of humility in parenting and discussing sensitive topics.
• The role of curiosity in overcoming shame and fostering dialogue.
• The significance of parents sharing their own stories appropriately.
• Practical steps for parents to start conversations about sexuality.
• The value of building a foundation of trust and openness in family relationships.
• Resources available for parents to guide discussions on sexuality.
• The idea that it's never too late to engage in conversations about sexuality with older children.

More Resources:

• Before the Sex Talk: A Theology of the Body Approach for Parents and Mentors*
• Critical Conversations (FREE Online Course)
• 7 Tips to Help You Address Sexual Issues with Your Kids

Related Podcasts:

• Understanding God's Design for Sex in Today's Confused World
• Helping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and Sexuality
• How Parents Can Leverage Their Story of Brokenness to Help Their Kids Pursue Integrity

 

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In this episode, I sit down with Troy Snyder, a colleague and counseling expert from Restoration Counseling of Atlanta, to explore early couple recovery after sexual betrayal. Troy breaks down what those first six months after discovery really look like, emphasizing stability and safety over quick fixes. 

We dig into the concept of "reality abuse," the critical role of humility for the betraying spouse, and why individual healing must work in harmony with relational work. Troy also shares practical boundary-setting strategies and reminds couples that restoration is possible — it's simply a long, faithful journey worth taking.

To learn more about Troy and his resources, visit RestorationCounselingATL.com and RedeemingLife.net.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Early couple recovery following sexual betrayal in marriage.
• The concept of "reality abuse" and its impact on shared reality.
• The necessity of individual work for both partners in the recovery process.
• The importance of humility, patience, and long-term commitment from the betraying partner.
• Establishing and respecting healthy boundaries to ensure safety for the betrayed spouse.
• The significance of creating stability and safety in the early recovery phase.
• The role of professional support and community in the recovery journey.
• The process of honesty and full disclosure as foundational for rebuilding trust.
• The need for couples to avoid rushing into relational work before individual healing.
• The long-term vision for recovery and the importance of perseverance and hope.

More Resources:

• Restoration Counseling of Atlanta
• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
• Online Care Groups for Wives (betrayal trauma healing)

Related Podcasts:

• Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model
• The Three Phases of Couples Recovery
• Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal

 

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In this episode, I welcome back Andrea Rogers, a Board Certified Life Coach specializing in intimate partner betrayal trauma. Andrea shares her powerful personal story of discovering her husband's double life after 14 years of marriage, which eventually led her into coaching work. 

We explore what intimate partner betrayal truly means, its devastating emotional and physical impacts—including PTSD-like symptoms—and why it's so isolating. Andrea also shares about the Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day, observed annually on August 4th. This is a growing movement to bring visibility and community to those affected. 

To learn more about Andrea and her resources, visit FullyAliveCoachingLLC.com and IPBAwareness.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Personal experience with intimate partner betrayal and its impact on relationships.
• Definition and understanding of intimate partner betrayal and betrayal trauma.
• Emotional and psychological effects of betrayal trauma, including symptoms similar to PTSD.
• The isolating nature of betrayal and societal misconceptions surrounding it.
• The establishment and significance of Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day.
• Misconceptions about preventing betrayal and the need for specialized support.
• The importance of community and support systems for healing from betrayal trauma.
• Distinction between betrayal trauma and other forms of relational conflict.
• Strategies for healing and first steps for those experiencing betrayal.
• The role of friends and family in supporting individuals dealing with betrayal trauma.

More Resources:

• An Ember of Light by Andrea Aminah
• Wives Care Groups (Online)
• 40 Days of Healing for Wives (online course)

Related Podcasts:

• Is There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal?
• Online Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal Trauma
• Healing from Sexual Trauma and Coercive Control in Relationships

 

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In this episode, I sit down with my longtime friend Dr. Stephen Cervantes to explore a powerful communication tool for couples. Inspired by psychologist Aimee Moran's work with children, Stephen shares nine meaningful questions designed to spark deeper conversations beyond the typical "How was your day?" "Fine." exchange. From reflecting on daily blessings to spotting God at work, these questions build curiosity, emotional connection, and intimacy. 

We also discuss how especially in marriages healing from betrayal, meaningful dialogue is a true sign of heart-level growth. These simple questions can genuinely transform how couples connect every day!

For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Improving communication in marriages, particularly after sexual betrayal.
• Adapting questions originally designed for children to facilitate deeper conversations between couples.
• Encouraging emotional expression and moving beyond superficial responses.
• Discussing daily experiences, challenges, and personal growth within the context of marriage.
• The importance of creating a safe space for sensitive discussions, especially regarding mistakes and challenges.
• Fostering curiosity, care, and intimacy through meaningful dialogue.
• Recognizing and addressing emotional needs in relationships.
• The role of prayer and spiritual awareness in strengthening marital bonds.
• Highlighting the significance of noticing and appreciating daily moments and connections.
• Encouraging ongoing personal and relational growth through intentional questioning and dialogue.

More Resources:

• 40 Days of Oneness* by Stephen Cervantes
• 131 Creative Conversations for Couples* by Jed Jurchenko
• Love Talk* by Les and Leslie Parrott

Related Podcasts:

• The Goal is Connecting
• Working Through Emotional Disconnection in Marriage
• Assumptions vs. Communication: The Battle for Relational Harmony

 

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