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This program tackles the tough subjects of porn, lust, sexual brokenness, and practical principles for living every day in sexual integrity.
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Tuesday Feb 22, 2022
Tuesday Feb 22, 2022
In this episode, Stephen and I unpack what we are calling the 3 Levels of Sobriety, especially focusing on the third level. These categories are broken down into 1) real people, 2) media, and 3) thoughts. If that doesn’t quite make sense to you, that’s exactly why you need to listen to this episode.
If you are a man who wants to grow in integrity by digging deep into what goes on between your ears, listen closely because true sobriety goes beyond just eliminating unhealthy behaviors. You must work on your thoughts and this episode will help you with practical ideas for thought sobriety.
A resource that will help you retrain your mind toward a life of sexual integrity is our 40 Days of Purity online course. Learn more and enroll at 40days.PureLifeAcademy.org.
More Resources:
- Grace-Based Recovery by Jonathan Daugherty
- Unwanted by Jay Stringer
- Gateway to Freedom 3-day workshop for men
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- Addicted Thinking vs. Healthy Thinking
- Replacing Escaping and Hiding with Healthy Thoughts & Behaviors
- Guy Thoughts on Emotional Awareness and Maturity
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Tuesday Feb 15, 2022
Tuesday Feb 15, 2022
Our guest today is Sathiya Sam. He is the creator of DeepClean, a systematic process for overcoming pornography, and the author of a new book entitled The Last Relapse: Realize Your Potential, Reclaim Intimacy, and Resolve the Root Issues of Porn Addiction.
In this episode, we unpack the 4 key sections of the book, which are:
- Taking Back Control of Your Life,
- Healing from Your Past,
- Regaining Your Confidence,
- And Becoming a New Man.
There is good news in this episode: Freedom from porn is possible! I am confident that this conversation will give you hope and practical ideas for next steps toward greater integrity.
To learn more about Sathiya and his resources, visit UltimateRecoveryGuide.com.
Get the book: The Last Relapse
More Resources for Men: Men.Bebroken.com
Related Podcasts:
- Helping Men Overcome Porn and Get Emotionally Fit
- When and Why Do Men Escape to Porn?
- Outgrowing the Porn Pacifier
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Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
Our guest today is Dr. Danny Huerta, vice president of Parenting and Youth at Focus on the Family. He oversees Focus’ initiatives that equip mothers and fathers with biblical principles and counsel for raising healthy, resilient children.
One of those initiatives is the 7 Traits of Effective Parenting. In this episode, Danny unpacks these 7 traits, including adaptability, boundaries, grace and forgiveness, and gratitude. If you are a parent who wants to improve how you interact with and guide your children through the joys and challenges of growing up, this episode can help.
Learn more about Danny and the 7 Traits of Effective Parenting at FocusontheFamily.com/7traits.
More Resources:
Related Podcasts:
- Help, My 11-Year-Old is Looking at Porn!
- Fighting Fears of Talking to Your Kids About Sex
- A Hopeful Mom Shares How to Have Difficult Conversations
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Tuesday Feb 01, 2022
Tuesday Feb 01, 2022
Our guests today are Jorge and Danisa Suarez. They are marriage counselors and sex therapists providing therapy together and individually to couples as they overcome infidelity, sexual addiction, a lack of intimacy, betrayal trauma, and intimacy disorders.
In this episode, Jorge and Danisa share about their ministry to couples around the world struggling with all sorts of sexual brokenness and pain. They bring incredible nuggets of wisdom and truth that have helped hundreds of couples experience healing and discover the hope and beauty of full restoration.
Whether you are married or not, this episode will help you understand key elements and principles that will help couples rebuild a marriage affected by sexual betrayal.
Learn more about Jorge and Danisa and their ministry resources for couples at CCICounseling.com.
More Resources
- Divine Sex: Live Your Best Experience Now by Danisa & Jorge Suarez
- Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal
- Bebroken.com
Related Podcasts
- Healthy Sexuality After Betrayal
- How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair
- Helping Husbands and Wives Go All In
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Tuesday Jan 25, 2022
Tuesday Jan 25, 2022
My guest today is Ted Shimer, author of The Freedom Fight, a research-based discipleship curriculum that equips men and women to break free from pornography so they can run their race and reach their God-given potential in Christ.
In this episode, Tim shares his 30+ year history of discipling college students and how he got involved in specifically helping young adults address struggles with porn and how to break free. He also shares 6 main roots to porn addiction, some key principles that lead to long-term freedom from porn, and why addressing porn is a huge opportunity for the church to help Christians know what it means to live out their true identity in Christ. Ted’s heart is not just that men and women get free from porn, but that they outgrow the perceived need for it.
Learn more about Ted and The Freedom Fight at TheFreedomFight.org.
More Resources
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- Breaking Free with Russell Willingham
- The Power of Community
- Helping Men Overcome Porn and Get Emotionally Fit
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Tuesday Jan 18, 2022
Tuesday Jan 18, 2022
In today’s episode, counselor Stephen Cervantes shares with us one man’s ups and downs of his journey of recovery – especially the ups and downs of faith. How does faith fit into recovery? What if Christianity doesn’t “cure” your addiction? Is it okay to wrestle with faith questions on a recovery journey?
We will peel back the layers of these questions and more to help you discover how faith weaves into recovery in a way that is hopeful, meaningful and life-changing. When you persist with curiosity on your recovery journey, breakthroughs happen!
To help you understand the key principles it takes to break free from addictive patterns, check out the First 7 Days for Men at 7Days.Bebroken.com or the First 7 Days for Women at 7DaysWomen.Bebroken.com.
More Resources:
- 40 Days of Training for Your Soul
- Resurrection and Recovery
- Is Recovery Worth the Cost?
- Grace-Based Recovery
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Tuesday Jan 11, 2022
Tuesday Jan 11, 2022
- 40 Days to Oneness by Stephen Cervantes
- Untangling Emotions by Groves and Smith
- Training for your Soul devotional
- Essential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional System
- About Your Emotional Connecting Skills
- A 7-Day Challenge for Emotional Growth
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Tuesday Jan 04, 2022
Tuesday Jan 04, 2022
Originally Aired: July 6, 2021
Drew was a kid who loved Jesus and hated porn, but still couldn't stop his unwanted behavior. Are you a man who can identify with this vicious cycle? In this episode, our guest is Drew Boa, the founder of Husband Material, a ministry to help men outgrow porn by changing your brain, healing your heart, and saving your relationship. If you want to discover hope for true freedom from porn, tune in to hear Drew's story and practical insights.
Learn more about Drew and his ministry: HusbandMaterial.com
40-Day Online Course for Men: 40Days.PureLifeAcademy.org
More resources for Men: Men.Bebroken.com
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Tuesday Dec 28, 2021
Tuesday Dec 28, 2021
Originally Aired: January 26, 2021
Sexual betrayal is a tidal wave of pain, confusion, and grief for a wife. It can feel like the very underpinnings of her life have been destroyed; kind of like an emotional earthquake. In this episode, Geremy Keeton introduces Aftershock, a powerful book he co-wrote with Joann Condie to help wives overcome the pain of their husband's secret sin and gain a plan for recovering from such betrayal.
Get your copy of Aftershock at FocusontheFamily.com/Aftershock
Counseling Help: 1-855-771-HELP
Online Course for Wives: Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal
For more Wives Care Resources, visit WivesCare.Bebroken.com
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Tuesday Dec 21, 2021
Tuesday Dec 21, 2021
Today my guest is John Fort, the Director of Training at Be Broken and also a family care specialist. John brings a background in education and addiction recovery that gives him a unique perspective on dealing with sensitive issues in today’s modern family. He is also an experienced parent who can understand firsthand the challenges and difficulties of raising kids in a sex-saturated culture.
In our discussion, we highlight the importance of parents being transparent with their kids about their history of sexual brokenness and leverage these conversations to help their kids navigate their own struggles with sexual topics and questions. This conversation deals with the fears that both parent and child likely have, how emotions connect to sexuality, and some practical applications to help families be more open about the ongoing journey from brokenness to wholeness in Christ.
For help having these conversations, get John’s book: Honest Talk: A New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex.
More Resources for Parents:
Emotional Resilience (online course)
A Family Game Plan for Responding to Porn (online course)
Related Podcasts:
- A Hopeful Mom Shares How to Have Difficult Conversations
- Talking to Your Kids About Sex: What Works and What Doesn't
- Portrait of a Brave Parent
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