Pure Sex Radio

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This program tackles the tough subjects of porn, lust, sexual brokenness, and practical principles for living every day in sexual integrity.

Episodes

Friday Feb 20, 2026

Critical Conversation #2: God's Design for Sex

Friday Feb 20, 2026

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!

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In this episode of "Family Time," I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to discuss how parents can confidently guide their kids through a sex-saturated culture. We focus on the second critical conversation: teaching children about God’s design for sex. Norma shares practical advice for having ongoing, honest, and grace-filled talks, addressing common barriers and emphasizing the importance of building trust.

We encourage parents to be vulnerable, seek God’s wisdom, and create a safe space for questions—reminding everyone that these conversations are a journey we take together as families.

For all our Family Care resources, visit Bebroken.org/family.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Introduction of the "Family Time" segment aimed at helping parents engage with their children.
Discussion on the importance of proactive conversations about sex from a biblical perspective.
Emphasis on the foundational elements of family care ministry, particularly "God's Design for Sex."
The significance of teaching children about authority and God's design in a sex-saturated culture.
Explanation of covenant relationships and the boundaries set by God regarding sex.
Challenges parents face in discussing sex, including personal trauma and cultural pressures.
The importance of ongoing, age-appropriate conversations about sex and sexuality.
Strategies for parents to foster open dialogue, including asking questions and being honest.
Resources and tools available for parents to aid in these discussions.
Encouragement for parents to seek God's wisdom and guidance in navigating these conversations.

Resources for Next Steps:

Critical Conversation Online Course (free)
God Made Your Body* by Jim Burns
Honest Talk: The Game

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Wednesday Feb 18, 2026

Knowing Your True Identity Beyond Sexual Brokenness

Wednesday Feb 18, 2026

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In this episode, I sit down with Anne Edward, who shares her powerful journey from childhood trauma and same-sex attraction to finding hope, healing, and her true identity in Jesus Christ. Anne opens up about her struggles, the process of forgiveness, and how embracing her God-given identity led to transformation.

We discuss why true change goes deeper than behavior—it's about understanding who we are in Christ. Anne now leads Restored Hope Network, helping others find freedom from sexual brokenness. Our conversation is honest, compassionate, and full of encouragement for anyone wrestling with identity or seeking wholeness in faith.

To learn more about Anne and Restored Hope Network, visit RestoredHopeNetwork.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Anne's personal story of overcoming sexual brokenness and trauma.
The impact of childhood trauma on identity and sexual attraction.
The journey to faith in Jesus Christ and the challenges faced post-conversion.
The importance of forgiveness and inner healing in personal growth.
The role of identity, particularly sexual identity, in struggles with sexual brokenness.
The distinction between behavior modification and addressing core identity issues.
The dangers of defining identity solely by sexual attractions and behaviors.
The significance of understanding identity as rooted in God's design and purpose.
Approaches for Christians to engage compassionately with those struggling with identity issues.
A message of hope and healing through God's grace and the importance of trusting in Him.

More Resources:

Hope 2026 Conference
Such Were Some of You (Documentary)
Changed Movement

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Wednesday Feb 11, 2026

Helping Your Kids Know God's Good Design

Wednesday Feb 11, 2026

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In this episode, I chat with Elizabeth Urbanowicz about her book, Helping Your Kids Know God’s Good Design: 40 Questions and Answers on Sexuality and Gender. Elizabeth shares her journey as a Christian educator and how she equips parents to teach kids about sexuality and gender from a biblical perspective.

We discuss God’s design for sex, the importance of ongoing conversations, how to address tough topics like pornography and gender confusion, and how to love others with grace and truth. Elizabeth offers practical advice for parents navigating today’s culture, always pointing back to the sufficiency of God’s Word and a thriving relationship with Jesus.

To learn more about Elizabeth and get her book, visit FoundationWorldview.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Biblical design for sexuality and marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman.
Understanding sex as a gift within marriage for intimacy and procreation.
Importance of focusing on the relationship with Christ rather than idolizing marriage.
Strategies for parents to educate children about sexuality and gender in a culturally saturated environment.
Addressing the topic of pornography and preparing children for potential exposure.
The significance of teaching children about God's design for sex from a young age.
Navigating conversations about sexual brokenness and honesty with children.
Teaching children to love others while maintaining biblical truth without affirming sin.
Guidelines for media consumption and discernment regarding content.
Encouraging ongoing growth and reliance on God's grace in discussions about sexuality.

More Resources:

Helping Your Kids Know God's Good Design by Elizabeth Urbanowicz
Family Integrity: Curiosity (online course)
7 Tips to Help You Address Sexual Issues with Your Kids

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Wednesday Feb 04, 2026

Glory from the Ashes: Clinton and Nikki's Story of Hope and Healing

Wednesday Feb 04, 2026

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In today’s episode, I sit down with Clinton and Nikki Mitchell, who bravely share their 31-year marriage journey through addiction, infidelity, and ultimately, healing. We talk about the pain of secrecy, the power of full disclosure, and how faith, therapy, and community helped them rebuild trust and spiritual intimacy.

Their story is raw and honest, showing that even in the darkest moments, hope and restoration are possible. I’m inspired by their courage and grateful for their wisdom, and I hope their journey encourages and emboldens anyone facing similar struggles.

Learn more about Clinton and Nikki and get their book at DWN4.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Personal story of marriage and struggles with addiction and infidelity.
Impact of pornography addiction on relationships and faith.
The cycle of avoidance and denial in addressing marital issues.
The significance of seeking help through therapy and accountability.
The concept of "fresh start" thinking in marriage and its pitfalls.
The journey toward healing and restoration through spiritual intimacy.
The importance of honesty and vulnerability in rebuilding trust.
The role of community support in overcoming personal struggles.
Practical ways to cultivate spiritual intimacy in a relationship.
The hope and possibility of redemption in the face of betrayal.

More Resources:

Glory from the Ashes* by Clinton and Nikki Mitchell
More Resources from DWN4
Building True Intimacy* by Drake and Raabsmith

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Wednesday Jan 28, 2026

From Broken to Brave: Courageous Healing After Betrayal Trauma

Wednesday Jan 28, 2026

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In this episode, I sit down with friend and former guest, Tammy Gustafson, a counselor and author of "Broken to Brave," to talk about healing after betrayal trauma. Tammy shares why wives often get stuck in their recovery—especially when pressured to trust or forgive too soon—and explains the importance of grieving and processing emotions like anger and sadness.

We discuss how true healing requires safety, honesty, and support, and Tammy offers practical advice for wives and their loved ones. Whether you’re feeling stuck or wondering when it’s safe to trust again, this conversation brings hope and encouragement for your journey.

To learn more about Tammy and get her new book, visit TammyGustafson.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Healing from betrayal trauma, particularly for betrayed wives.
Common challenges faced by wives during the healing process.
The concept of feeling "stuck" in the healing journey.
The importance of processing grief and emotions like anger and sadness.
The role of trust and forgiveness in the healing process.
The significance of establishing safety before rebuilding intimacy.
The need for emotional safety and understanding in relationships post-betrayal.
The impact of fear and doubt on a wife's readiness to trust again.
The importance of support from loved ones during the healing journey.
Insights from the book Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayals.

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Friday Jan 23, 2026

Critical Conversation #1: Feelings & Emotions

Friday Jan 23, 2026

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In this episode of our new “Family Time” segment, I chat with Norma Brown, our Family Care Director, about the first of six “critical conversations” parents should have with their kids: Feelings and Emotions. We focus on the importance of talking about feelings and emotions as the foundation for deeper topics like sex.

Norma shares practical tips, resources like the “Honest Talk Game,” and encouragement for parents to build trust and emotional connection. Together, we explore how modeling vulnerability and emotional honesty can help families create a safe space for open, ongoing conversations.

For all our Family Care resources, visit Bebroken.org/family.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Introduction of the "Family Time" segment focused on parenting in a sex-saturated culture.
Importance of having "critical conversations" with children.
First critical conversation centered on feelings and emotions.
Building trust and emotional expression as foundational elements in parent-child communication.
The role of parents in modeling emotional regulation and expression.
Strategies for parents to connect with their children emotionally.
Tools and resources to facilitate discussions about emotions, such as emotion wheels and the "Honest Talk Game."
Encouragement for parents to embark on their own emotional growth journey.
The significance of vulnerability and humility in parenting.
Reassurance that it's never too late to start building emotional connections with children.

Resources for Next Steps:

For more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.

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Wednesday Jan 21, 2026

Maxims that Help Us Go Beyond Sobriety in Recovery

Wednesday Jan 21, 2026

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In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I roll up our sleeves to explore the journey of recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors. We discuss the deeper transformation needed beyond just sobriety, sharing over a dozen practical maxims and spiritual insights that will help you aim for life beyond recovery.

We reflect on aging, grief, and the challenges of change, emphasizing honesty, community, and trusting God. Through personal stories and recovery wisdom, we encourage listeners to take small, consistent steps, embrace vulnerability, and remember that lasting change is a process—one day, and one choice, at a time.

For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors and addiction
Importance of foundational change and emotional work in recovery
The role of honesty and obedience in personal transformation
Reflections on aging, grief, and spiritual growth
Application of common recovery sayings to foster progress
The necessity of genuine behavioral and mindset changes
The significance of patience and persistence in the recovery process
The relationship between knowledge and lived experience in transformation
The metaphor of the "hallway" as a space for learning during uncertain times
Emphasis on community support and accountability in the recovery journey

More Resources:

Maxims that Help Us Through Change (blog post mentioned in episode)
Grace-Based Recovery* by Jonathan Daugherty
Transformation Pathway Journal for Men*

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Wednesday Jan 14, 2026

The Power of Perspective: How Compassion Changes Everything

Wednesday Jan 14, 2026

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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Stephen Cervantes from DoctorMarriage.org to explore how we see ourselves, others, and how Jesus sees us all. We dive into the impact of shame, addiction, and early life experiences on our identity, and discuss the healing power of viewing ourselves through Jesus’s compassionate eyes.

Together, we reflect on practical ways to break free from self-judgment and embrace a more loving, connected life—reminding ourselves that we’re all on a journey toward growth, healing, and deeper relationships, with God, ourselves, and others.

For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Exploration of self-perception and its impact on personal growth.
Examination of how individuals perceive others and the implications of these views.
Discussion of Jesus's perspective on individuals and others.
The role of early life experiences in shaping self and other perceptions.
The influence of shame and guilt in addiction and identity struggles.
The transformative potential of understanding Jesus's compassionate view.
The connection between self-acceptance and recovery from addiction.
The impact of pain on self-view and behavior patterns.
The relationship between self-identity and social connections.
The importance of compassion and community in healing and personal development.

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Wednesday Jan 07, 2026

Best of 2025: The Key to Real and Lasting Freedom from Porn

Wednesday Jan 07, 2026

Originally aired on January 29, 2025

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In today’s episode, our guest is Noah Filipiak, a pastor, author, and podcaster who is passionate about applying the reality of the gospel to the real struggles and challenges of life, especially struggles with porn and sexual brokenness. Noah opens up about his personal struggles with pornography addiction, which began in his teenage years despite growing up in a Christian home. He shares how vulnerability, community, and a deeper relationship with Christ were key to his recovery.

We discuss the importance of addressing these issues of sexual brokenness openly within the church and fostering supportive communities. A big part of the conversation is helping men understand what the true bullseye is for recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors. Noah emphasizes that true healing comes from understanding one's identity in Christ, not just behavior modification. The good news is that there is hope for truly overcoming any unwanted sexual behaviors through the power of God’s grace and vulnerable community.

To learn more about Noah and his resources, visit BeyondtheBattle.net.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Men's sexual integrity journeys
Personal experiences with pornography addiction
Challenges faced growing up in a Christian environment
The role of vulnerability and community in recovery
The impact of marriage on sexual desires and relationships
Understanding identity in Christ as a foundation for healing
The importance of addressing sexual integrity within the church
Overcoming shame and fear of vulnerability in discussions
The significance of community support in the recovery process
Practical steps for engaging in deeper transformation and discipleship

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Wednesday Dec 31, 2025

Best of 2025: Are You a Loner or Connector in Your Relationships?

Wednesday Dec 31, 2025

Originally aired on March 26, 2025

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In this episode, we dive into the dynamics of "loners" and "connectors" in relationships. Everyone falls into one of these categories. As we explore this topic, my friend and co-host Stephen Cervantes discusses how loners tend to be independent and process internally, while connectors thrive on dialogue and emotional exchange. We examine how these differences impact communication and emotional connection, particularly in marriages.

We share insights on personal growth, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating each other's communication styles; we aren’t out to change a loner into a connector or vice versa. We give lots of personal anecdotes and practical advice, aiming to help you navigate these differences to foster deeper connections and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

To read the Thought on Loners and Connectors, go to DoctorMarriage.org/loners-and-connectors.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Distinction between "loners" and "connectors" in personal relationships.
Characteristics of loners: independence, introspection, and internal processing.
Characteristics of connectors: relational, expressive, and dialogue-oriented.
Impact of communication styles on relationships, particularly in marriage.
Importance of emotional connection and its role in relationship dynamics.
Challenges faced by loners in engaging with emotional exchanges.
The necessity of active listening in fostering trust and connection.
Strategies for navigating differences between loners and connectors.
The role of personal growth in improving relationship dynamics.
Encouragement for couples to discuss and understand their connection styles for deeper intimacy.

More Resources:

40 Days to Oneness by Stephen Cervantes
The 40 Day Relationship Builder* by Stephen Cervantes
Building True Intimacy* by Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith

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