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This program tackles the tough subjects of porn, lust, sexual brokenness, and practical principles for living every day in sexual integrity.
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Wednesday Jan 29, 2025
Wednesday Jan 29, 2025
In today’s episode, our guest is Noah Filipiak, a pastor, author, and podcaster who is passionate about applying the reality of the gospel to the real struggles and challenges of life, especially struggles with porn and sexual brokenness. Noah opens up about his personal struggles with pornography addiction, which began in his teenage years despite growing up in a Christian home. He shares how vulnerability, community, and a deeper relationship with Christ were key to his recovery.
We discuss the importance of addressing these issues of sexual brokenness openly within the church and fostering supportive communities. A big part of the conversation is helping men understand what the true bullseye is for recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors. Noah emphasizes that true healing comes from understanding one's identity in Christ, not just behavior modification. The good news is that there is hope for truly overcoming any unwanted sexual behaviors through the power of God’s grace and vulnerable community.
To learn more about Noah and his resources, visit BeyondtheBattle.net.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Men's sexual integrity journeys
- Personal experiences with pornography addiction
- Challenges faced growing up in a Christian environment
- The role of vulnerability and community in recovery
- The impact of marriage on sexual desires and relationships
- Understanding identity in Christ as a foundation for healing
- The importance of addressing sexual integrity within the church
- Overcoming shame and fear of vulnerability in discussions
- The significance of community support in the recovery process
- Practical steps for engaging in deeper transformation and discipleship
More Resources:
- Beyond the Battle Online Groups
- Needed Navigation Teen Guide
- Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
Related Podcasts:
- Porn Addiction Recovery for Men Podcast Bundle
- Recovery Discovery 002: Identity
- How Can Recovery Lead to a New Growth Mission?
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Wednesday Jan 22, 2025
Wednesday Jan 22, 2025
In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the ongoing struggles of emotional disconnection in marriage, sparked by one man’s agonizing question: How does a man live a good life while feeling alone and disconnect in his marriage?
We explore the pain of feeling isolated from a spouse and the importance of personal growth, faith, and community support.
Stephen shares wisdom on enduring suffering, finding joy beyond one’s spouse, and the necessity of a supportive network. We emphasize that personal transformation often happens through discomfort and that God's presence provides comfort and guidance. This episode is a hopeful reminder that growth and resilience can lead to deeper connections and fulfillment, even in challenging times.
For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Emotional disconnection in marriage
- Personal growth through discomfort and suffering
- The role of faith in navigating relationship challenges
- Importance of community support and accountability
- Strategies for coping with loneliness and isolation
- Transforming perspectives on love and relationships
- Finding contentment and peace in solitude
- Engaging in practices that foster connection with God
- The significance of ongoing dialogue with God
- Encouragement to take actionable steps toward personal transformation
More Resources:
Related Podcasts:
- What Can Stunt Your Emotional Growth Mission?
- Living More than a Love Story
- Grieving to Grow a Great Marriage
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Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
In this episode, our guest is Casey Allison, an expert in supporting mothers through betrayal trauma. Casey, a mother of nine, shares her personal journey of navigating betrayal in her marriage and its impact on her family.
She emphasizes the importance of healing for both mothers and their children, and the need for safety, support, and faith during these challenging times. Casey’s candid reflections on anger, authenticity, and revisiting her faith offer valuable insights and encouragement. She invites listeners to engage in support, reminding us that healing is possible through Christ and connection.
To learn more about Casey and her coaching resources, visit ComeAwakeCoach.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Mothering through betrayal trauma
- Personal experiences of a mother of nine dealing with betrayal
- Impact of betrayal on family dynamics
- Importance of healing for mothers and children
- Emotional complexities of motherhood in the context of betrayal
- Need for safety and healthy boundaries
- Communication strategies with children during difficult times
- Navigating anger and authenticity in motherhood
- Revisiting faith and theological beliefs during struggles
- Offering hope and support for mothers facing betrayal trauma
More Resources:
Related Podcasts:
- Betrayal Trauma Healing Podcast Bundle
- Identifying and Meeting Needs in a Betrayed Wife
- Emotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed Wives
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Wednesday Jan 08, 2025
Wednesday Jan 08, 2025
In this special 1000th episode, we take a heartfelt trip down memory lane, reflecting on our journey since the podcast got started way back in 2005. We share personal stories, discuss the evolution of the show, and emphasize the importance of grace and kindness in this challenging work.
We celebrate you, the community we’ve built together, and encourage you to reflect on your own experiences and the transformative power of God's grace. This episode is both a celebration of a huge milestone and an invitation for you to share your stories and engage deeply with the mission of transformation.
Please share your podcast stories with me directly at jonathan@bebroken.org.
To get daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Celebration of the 1000th episode milestone of the podcast.
- Reflection on the podcast's history and evolution since its inception in 2005.
- Importance of grace and kindness in personal and professional lives.
- Encouragement for listeners to share their own stories and experiences.
- Discussion on the transformative power of God's grace.
- Emphasis on community building and support among listeners.
- Exploration of personal messages and purpose in life.
- The significance of peace, rest, and joy in emotional and spiritual well-being.
- Recognition of the role of pain in discovering purpose and growth.
- Commitment to providing practical information and inspiring action for listeners.
More Resources:
- Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive
- Grace-Based Recovery 8-Week Online Study Groups
- FREE Men's Integrity Webinar
Related Podcasts:
- How Can Recovery Lead to a New Growth Mission?
- Back to the Basics of Sexual Integrity
- Three Purposes in Life
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Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
Originally Aired on February 7, 2024
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How important is trust to emotional health and building strong, mature relationships? It is vital! Yet, many men we have served in our ministry struggle terribly with trust.
In today’s episode, Stephen and I are going to dig into this important topic of trust through the lens of one man’s story that begins with him not being able to trust his parents with his thoughts and feelings and ends with him finally living a “love plus trust” story.
We will share the distinction between love and trust and how love plus trust takes us even deeper than love alone. We need to learn how to understand trust in its multilayered dimensions if we want to enjoy strong, healthy relationships.
For resources from Stephen to help you grow and mature emotionally, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
More Resources:
- 40 Days to Oneness
- Growth Map: The Pathway to Peace, Rest, and Joy*
- Untangling Emotions by Groves & Smith*
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Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
Originally Aired on May 1, 2024
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HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES!
We have a goal of $118,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2025 through this podcast and all our other ministries.
To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201.
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In this episode, we're hanging out with the dynamic duo, Linda Stewart and Linda Noble, who share their journey and collaborative work in the world of sexual education and theology of the body.
They tell about their work with the Identity Project, aiming to help parents and families chat about sexuality and relationships in a faith-filled, positive way. The Lindas talk about their own lightbulb moments at the Theology of the Body Institute and how they're now passionate about giving parents the tools to paint a beautiful picture of God's design for their kids.
They're all about tackling the big questions and easing those parent jitters with resources like their books and workbooks. It's all about building trust, having heart-to-hearts, and guiding the little ones through life's big topics.
Learn more about the Lindas and their work at IdentityProject.tv and TheConversationWorkshop.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Collaboration of Linda Stewart and Linda Noble in sexual education and theology of the body
- The Linda's Involvement in the Identity Project
- Approach to educating parents and families about sexuality and relationships
- Initial reluctance to discuss sexuality and the journey to embracing the theology of the body
- Theology of the body as a comprehensive view of sexuality and Christian sexual ethic
- Importance of understanding God's design for sex in addressing sexual brokenness
- The role of parents in teaching children about God's love and their design
- Addressing the fears and anxieties of parents in discussing sexuality with children
- Providing support and resources for parents to navigate sexuality and relationships with their children
More Resources:
- Before the Sex Talk* by The Lindas
- Honest Talk* by John Fort
- Our Bodies Tell God's Story* by Christopher West
Related Podcasts:
- God's Design for Emotional Growth and Sexuality
- Helping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and Sexuality
- Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World
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Wednesday Dec 18, 2024
Wednesday Dec 18, 2024
In this episode, our guest is Stephen Thomas, who bravely shares his journey through struggles with pornography and same-sex attraction. Stephen opens up about his Christian upbringing, the shame he felt for his early porn use, and the pivotal role of community, faith, and vulnerability in his healing process.
He recounts how early exposure to pornography led to a cycle of hiddenness and shame, and how opening up to his family and seeking therapy marked the beginning of his recovery. Stephen's story is a powerful reminder of the grace of God and the importance of authentic connections and support in overcoming deep personal struggles.
To learn more about Stephen and his coaching services, visit StephenThomasConsulting.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Personal journey of overcoming struggles with pornography and same-sex attraction.
- Impact of upbringing in a Christian household on sexual identity and shame.
- The significance of vulnerability and honesty in relationships.
- The role of community and support in the healing process.
- The internal conflict between desires and societal expectations.
- The importance of confession and accountability in recovery.
- Addressing underlying emotional issues related to addiction.
- Strategies for maintaining sobriety and fostering meaningful connections.
- Advice for men at different stages of their recovery journey.
- Resources available for further support and coaching in overcoming sexual brokenness.
More Resources:
- Get Free, Stay Free Masterclass
- Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive
- Grace-Based Recovery 8-Week Online Study Groups
Related Podcasts:
- The Sex Talk You Never Got
- Am I Gay? (with Garry Ingraham)
- How Group Work Will Transform Your Recovery Journey
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Wednesday Dec 11, 2024
Wednesday Dec 11, 2024
2024 YEAR-END FINANCIAL NEED: $118,000
(We are currently at nearly 40% of the goal!)
This ministry continues to reach men and women worldwide through the generous and faithful partnerships of listeners like you. Would you prayerfully consider partnering with us to meet our year-end financial need?
To make your year-end gift or become a monthly partner, visit Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you!
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In today’s episode, my guests are Mark and Jill Savage, a couple that understands struggle, betrayal, and restoration. They talk about their incredible journey, betrayal, and the journey to rebuild trust. Mark opens up about his midlife crisis and infidelity after 28 years of marriage, while Jill shares the deep pain and the process of healing.
They emphasize the importance of personal growth, accountability, and transparent communication. Mark's transformation began with a personal "resurrection" moment one Easter Sunday, leading to consistent efforts to regain Jill's trust. Their story is a testament to the power of God’s faithfulness and commitment in overcoming marital challenges, offering hope and practical insights for couples facing similar struggles.
To learn more about Mark and Jill and their resources, visit JillSavage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- The journey of Mark and Jill Savage through marriage challenges, including infidelity.
- The impact of betrayal on family dynamics and emotional well-being.
- The process of rebuilding trust after infidelity and the time it requires.
- The importance of transparency and accountability in restoring trust.
- Individual growth as a crucial element in healing and relationship improvement.
- The role of effective communication and vulnerability in strengthening relationships.
- The nature of trust as a gradual process that cannot be forced.
- The significance of personal responsibility and self-improvement in overcoming marital issues.
- Offering hope and resources for couples facing similar challenges.
- The transformative power of faith and commitment in rebuilding a marriage.
More Resources:
- RebuildingTrust.us
- No More Perfect Marriages* by Mark & Jill Savage
- Marriage 2.0 Intensive
Related Podcasts:
- Rebuilding Your Marriage After Betrayal Podcast Playlist
- A Journey of Redemption and Healing
- How Can Therapeutic Disclosure Help Heal Marriages Affected by Sexual Betrayal?
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Wednesday Dec 04, 2024
Wednesday Dec 04, 2024
In this episode, I welcome Kim Hansen Petroni, an expert in betrayal trauma healing. We dive into the challenges many women face when dealing with emotionally lifeless marriages or divorce. Kim shares her personal journey and professional insights, emphasizing the importance of safety, grief, and reconnecting with God and self.
We discuss the common lack of support from the church and the critical need for understanding and compassion. Kim offers practical tools for healing across physical, emotional, spiritual, and relational aspects. This episode is a beacon of hope, reminding women that healing from betrayal and a stronger sense of self and community are within reach.
To learn more about Kim and her resources, visit NotaCasseroleWidow.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Betrayal trauma healing, particularly for women in difficult marriages.
- Personal experiences and professional background of the guest in psychology and counseling.
- The impact of betrayal trauma on women's emotional and spiritual well-being.
- The three main stages of healing from betrayal trauma: 1) safety and stabilization, 2) grief and mourning, and 3) reconnecting with the outside world.
- Challenges faced by women during divorce, including identity loss and lack of community support.
- The role of the church in supporting women experiencing betrayal trauma.
- The importance of self-care and emotional support during the healing process.
- Practical tools for physical, emotional, spiritual, and relational healing.
- The significance of community and shared experiences among women dealing with betrayal trauma.
- Messages of hope and empowerment for women navigating their healing journeys.
More Resources:
- Not a Casserole Widow* by Kim Hansen Petroni
- CoachingHope4U.com
- Online Care Groups for Wives
Related Podcasts:
- Is There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal?
- Life and Hope After Divorce: Reese and Sharon's Story
- New Course: 40 Days of Healing for Wives
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Wednesday Nov 27, 2024
Wednesday Nov 27, 2024
2024 YEAR-END FINANCIAL NEED: $118,000
This ministry continues to reach men and women worldwide through the generous and faithful partnerships of listeners like you. Would you prayerfully consider partnering with us to meet our year-end financial need?
To make your year-end gift or become a monthly partner, visit Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you!
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In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the theme of temptation, especially regarding male sexuality and the internal conflicts it sparks. Through a role-playing exercise, we illustrate the dialogue between the mind, body, and spirit during moments of temptation.
We highlight the struggle between seeking pleasure and maintaining spiritual discipline. Stephen emphasizes the importance of standing firm and seeking peace, while I underscore the role of the Holy Spirit and community support in overcoming temptation. This episode offers valuable insights and practical tools for managing desires and fostering a healthier relationship with yourself.
For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Exploration of temptation, particularly in the context of male sexuality.
- Internal conflict between the mind, body, and spirit during moments of temptation.
- Role-playing exercise to illustrate the dialogue among different parts of the self.
- The cyclical nature of temptation and the struggle for self-control.
- The concept of the "wounded boy" representing emotional pain and longing for comfort.
- The importance of spiritual discipline and self-control in managing desires.
- The role of the Holy Spirit in guiding individuals through temptation.
- The significance of community and connection in overcoming isolation during struggles.
- Encouragement to engage in self-reflection and recognize inner conflicts.
- A call to action for individuals to pursue a healthier relationship with their desires and spiritual journey.
More Resources:
- Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
- Sexual Integrity Webinar for Men
- Dealing with Temptation Podcast Bundle
Related Podcasts:
- Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction
- What to Do in the Moment of Temptation
- Understanding Body, Soul, and Spirit
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