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This program tackles the tough subjects of porn, lust, sexual brokenness, and practical principles for living every day in sexual integrity.
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Friday Feb 21, 2025
Friday Feb 21, 2025
In today’s episode, we have Wendy Crane with us to talk about her new book, "The Scandal of Virginia Grey." Wendy opens up about her personal journey through infidelity, her 20-year marriage to Reese that didn’t start out like a fairytale, and the healing process that followed. She shares the emotional experience of writing her book, which allowed her to confront past traumas and find redemption.
We discuss the importance of forgiveness, especially Wendy's unique relationship with Reese's ex-wife. Wendy hopes her story offers hope and understanding to others in similar situations, emphasizing that healing and transformation are always possible.
To get the book and learn about coaching services, visit TheSilentAddiction.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Wendy Crane's personal journey and experiences with infidelity
- The emotional process of writing her book, "The Scandal of Virginia Grey"
- Themes of healing and redemption in relationships
- The significance of forgiveness, particularly in blended families
- The allegorical nature of Wendy's book and its connection to her life
- The impact of revisiting painful memories during the writing process
- The concept of confession as a means of healing
- Target audiences for the book, including those in similar situations and readers interested in redemption stories
- The importance of self-forgiveness and compassion towards others
- Messages of hope and transformation in the face of adversity
More Resources:
- The Scandal of Virginia Grey book
- Basics Webinar for Wives
- Wives Care Groups for Betrayal Trauma Healing
Related Podcasts:
- Life and Hope After Divorce: Reese and Sharon's Story
- Dealing with Divorce, Betrayal Trauma, and Hope
- New Course: 40 Days of Healing for Wives
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Wednesday Feb 19, 2025
Wednesday Feb 19, 2025
In this episode, I chat with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care director, about preparing parents for spring break, especially regarding their children's online behavior and conversations about sexuality.
Norma provides practical strategies for parents to foster a safe environment for open dialogue, ensuring meaningful conversations about online safety and appropriate behavior – and not just over spring break. We discuss the importance of ongoing communication, setting clear expectations, and addressing idleness. We emphasize the value of empathy, vulnerability, and guiding children through their spiritual journeys, both in everyday life as well as times, like spring break, when schedules and routines are disrupted.
For everything we discussed in today’s episode, visit Bebroken.org/springbreaksuccess.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Preparing parents for spring break and its challenges.
- Managing children's online behavior during unstructured time.
- Importance of ongoing communication about sexuality between parents and children.
- Strategies for setting clear expectations and boundaries.
- Addressing idleness and its impact on children's behavior.
- Encouraging productive activities and family engagement during breaks.
- Importance of pre-spring break, during spring break, and post-spring break conversations.
- Discussing online safety and appropriate behavior with children.
- Sharing personal experiences to foster connection and trust.
- Encouraging a biblical worldview and open dialogue about curiosity and sexuality.
More Resources:
- Critical Conversation Free Webinar
- 7 Tips to Help You Address Sexual Issues with Your Kids
- A Family Game Plan for Discussing Porn (online course)
Related Podcasts:
- Teaching Healthy Tech Habits to Your Kids (Podcast Bundle)
- Talking to Your Kids About Sex (Podcast Bundle)
- A Family Game Plan for Responding to Porn
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Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
In today’s episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I explore the importance of self-awareness in relationships, especially for husbands. We discuss how men can enhance their relationships by recognizing their interaction patterns and understanding their own emotional state and that of their wife’s.
Stephen emphasizes the value of men engaging with their wives through simple acts like sharing daily thoughts and curiosity, which can foster meaningful dialogue. We also touch on the challenges of communication, the impact of self-absorption, and the importance of processing disappointment with God first. Ultimately, the episode offers practical tools for men to nurture deeper connections with their wives.
For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Importance of self-awareness in relationships, especially for husbands.
- Recognizing patterns in interactions with partners.
- The significance of understanding one's own thoughts and feelings.
- Observing and responding to the emotional states of partners.
- Challenges of communication between men and women.
- The impact of sharing ideas and fostering dialogue in relationships.
- The role of self-absorption and its effects on communication.
- The necessity of processing disappointments with God before addressing them with a partner.
- The influence of tone and demeanor on partner perceptions during discussions.
- Strategies for creating a supportive and understanding relationship dynamic.
More Resources:
- Recognizing Patterns
- 40 Days of Training for Your Soul (free download)
- 40 Days to Oneness (marriage devotional)
Related Podcasts:
- Emotional Growth for Men Podcast Bundle
- Dealing with Conflict in Marriage Podcast Bundle
- Understanding Emotionally Detached Men
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Wednesday Feb 05, 2025
Wednesday Feb 05, 2025
In today’s episode, our guest is author and speaker Melinda Patrick. She transparently shares about her journey as a mother navigating her daughter's revelation of same-sex attraction. Melinda opens up about her initial reaction, driven by a desire to "fix" her daughter, and how this response strained their relationship.
She shares the struggles, shame, and guilt she faced, and the redemptive work God has done in their lives over time, even though they are very much in the “messy middle” of the journey. Melinda emphasizes the importance of love, listening, and understanding, offering valuable insights for parents in similar situations. Her story is a testament to the power of compassion and faith in overcoming challenges.
To learn more about Melinda and her resources, visit MelindaPatrick.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Melinda Patrick's journey as a mother dealing with her daughter's same-sex attraction revelation.
- Initial reactions of parents when faced with their child's LGBTQ identity.
- The impact of a "fix it" mentality on parent-child relationships.
- Feelings of shame, guilt, and isolation experienced by parents.
- The importance of love, listening, and understanding in difficult family situations.
- The role of faith and spiritual growth in navigating personal struggles.
- The significance of authentic faith and modeling forgiveness in relationships.
- Common pitfalls for parents, such as the urge to control or manipulate situations.
- The power of prayer and seeking God's guidance in parenting.
- Resources for parents, including Melinda's book and podcast focused on supporting LGBTQ children.
More Resources:
- The Daring Rescue* book
- The Bridge Between Us podcast with Melinda Patrick
- HisWonderfulWorks.com
Related Podcasts:
- Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation?
- How to Support Without Endorsing
- Loving Your LGBTQ-Identified Child with Grace and Truth
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Wednesday Jan 29, 2025
Wednesday Jan 29, 2025
In today’s episode, our guest is Noah Filipiak, a pastor, author, and podcaster who is passionate about applying the reality of the gospel to the real struggles and challenges of life, especially struggles with porn and sexual brokenness. Noah opens up about his personal struggles with pornography addiction, which began in his teenage years despite growing up in a Christian home. He shares how vulnerability, community, and a deeper relationship with Christ were key to his recovery.
We discuss the importance of addressing these issues of sexual brokenness openly within the church and fostering supportive communities. A big part of the conversation is helping men understand what the true bullseye is for recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors. Noah emphasizes that true healing comes from understanding one's identity in Christ, not just behavior modification. The good news is that there is hope for truly overcoming any unwanted sexual behaviors through the power of God’s grace and vulnerable community.
To learn more about Noah and his resources, visit BeyondtheBattle.net.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Men's sexual integrity journeys
- Personal experiences with pornography addiction
- Challenges faced growing up in a Christian environment
- The role of vulnerability and community in recovery
- The impact of marriage on sexual desires and relationships
- Understanding identity in Christ as a foundation for healing
- The importance of addressing sexual integrity within the church
- Overcoming shame and fear of vulnerability in discussions
- The significance of community support in the recovery process
- Practical steps for engaging in deeper transformation and discipleship
More Resources:
- Beyond the Battle Online Groups
- Needed Navigation Teen Guide
- Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
Related Podcasts:
- Porn Addiction Recovery for Men Podcast Bundle
- Recovery Discovery 002: Identity
- How Can Recovery Lead to a New Growth Mission?
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Wednesday Jan 22, 2025
Wednesday Jan 22, 2025
In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the ongoing struggles of emotional disconnection in marriage, sparked by one man’s agonizing question: How does a man live a good life while feeling alone and disconnect in his marriage?
We explore the pain of feeling isolated from a spouse and the importance of personal growth, faith, and community support.
Stephen shares wisdom on enduring suffering, finding joy beyond one’s spouse, and the necessity of a supportive network. We emphasize that personal transformation often happens through discomfort and that God's presence provides comfort and guidance. This episode is a hopeful reminder that growth and resilience can lead to deeper connections and fulfillment, even in challenging times.
For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Emotional disconnection in marriage
- Personal growth through discomfort and suffering
- The role of faith in navigating relationship challenges
- Importance of community support and accountability
- Strategies for coping with loneliness and isolation
- Transforming perspectives on love and relationships
- Finding contentment and peace in solitude
- Engaging in practices that foster connection with God
- The significance of ongoing dialogue with God
- Encouragement to take actionable steps toward personal transformation
More Resources:
Related Podcasts:
- What Can Stunt Your Emotional Growth Mission?
- Living More than a Love Story
- Grieving to Grow a Great Marriage
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Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
In this episode, our guest is Casey Allison, an expert in supporting mothers through betrayal trauma. Casey, a mother of nine, shares her personal journey of navigating betrayal in her marriage and its impact on her family.
She emphasizes the importance of healing for both mothers and their children, and the need for safety, support, and faith during these challenging times. Casey’s candid reflections on anger, authenticity, and revisiting her faith offer valuable insights and encouragement. She invites listeners to engage in support, reminding us that healing is possible through Christ and connection.
To learn more about Casey and her coaching resources, visit ComeAwakeCoach.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Mothering through betrayal trauma
- Personal experiences of a mother of nine dealing with betrayal
- Impact of betrayal on family dynamics
- Importance of healing for mothers and children
- Emotional complexities of motherhood in the context of betrayal
- Need for safety and healthy boundaries
- Communication strategies with children during difficult times
- Navigating anger and authenticity in motherhood
- Revisiting faith and theological beliefs during struggles
- Offering hope and support for mothers facing betrayal trauma
More Resources:
Related Podcasts:
- Betrayal Trauma Healing Podcast Bundle
- Identifying and Meeting Needs in a Betrayed Wife
- Emotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed Wives
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Wednesday Jan 08, 2025
Wednesday Jan 08, 2025
In this special 1000th episode, we take a heartfelt trip down memory lane, reflecting on our journey since the podcast got started way back in 2005. We share personal stories, discuss the evolution of the show, and emphasize the importance of grace and kindness in this challenging work.
We celebrate you, the community we’ve built together, and encourage you to reflect on your own experiences and the transformative power of God's grace. This episode is both a celebration of a huge milestone and an invitation for you to share your stories and engage deeply with the mission of transformation.
Please share your podcast stories with me directly at jonathan@bebroken.org.
To get daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Celebration of the 1000th episode milestone of the podcast.
- Reflection on the podcast's history and evolution since its inception in 2005.
- Importance of grace and kindness in personal and professional lives.
- Encouragement for listeners to share their own stories and experiences.
- Discussion on the transformative power of God's grace.
- Emphasis on community building and support among listeners.
- Exploration of personal messages and purpose in life.
- The significance of peace, rest, and joy in emotional and spiritual well-being.
- Recognition of the role of pain in discovering purpose and growth.
- Commitment to providing practical information and inspiring action for listeners.
More Resources:
- Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive
- Grace-Based Recovery 8-Week Online Study Groups
- FREE Men's Integrity Webinar
Related Podcasts:
- How Can Recovery Lead to a New Growth Mission?
- Back to the Basics of Sexual Integrity
- Three Purposes in Life
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Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
Originally Aired on February 7, 2024
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How important is trust to emotional health and building strong, mature relationships? It is vital! Yet, many men we have served in our ministry struggle terribly with trust.
In today’s episode, Stephen and I are going to dig into this important topic of trust through the lens of one man’s story that begins with him not being able to trust his parents with his thoughts and feelings and ends with him finally living a “love plus trust” story.
We will share the distinction between love and trust and how love plus trust takes us even deeper than love alone. We need to learn how to understand trust in its multilayered dimensions if we want to enjoy strong, healthy relationships.
For resources from Stephen to help you grow and mature emotionally, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
More Resources:
- 40 Days to Oneness
- Growth Map: The Pathway to Peace, Rest, and Joy*
- Untangling Emotions by Groves & Smith*
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Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
Originally Aired on May 1, 2024
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HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES!
We have a goal of $118,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2025 through this podcast and all our other ministries.
To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201.
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In this episode, we're hanging out with the dynamic duo, Linda Stewart and Linda Noble, who share their journey and collaborative work in the world of sexual education and theology of the body.
They tell about their work with the Identity Project, aiming to help parents and families chat about sexuality and relationships in a faith-filled, positive way. The Lindas talk about their own lightbulb moments at the Theology of the Body Institute and how they're now passionate about giving parents the tools to paint a beautiful picture of God's design for their kids.
They're all about tackling the big questions and easing those parent jitters with resources like their books and workbooks. It's all about building trust, having heart-to-hearts, and guiding the little ones through life's big topics.
Learn more about the Lindas and their work at IdentityProject.tv and TheConversationWorkshop.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Collaboration of Linda Stewart and Linda Noble in sexual education and theology of the body
- The Linda's Involvement in the Identity Project
- Approach to educating parents and families about sexuality and relationships
- Initial reluctance to discuss sexuality and the journey to embracing the theology of the body
- Theology of the body as a comprehensive view of sexuality and Christian sexual ethic
- Importance of understanding God's design for sex in addressing sexual brokenness
- The role of parents in teaching children about God's love and their design
- Addressing the fears and anxieties of parents in discussing sexuality with children
- Providing support and resources for parents to navigate sexuality and relationships with their children
More Resources:
- Before the Sex Talk* by The Lindas
- Honest Talk* by John Fort
- Our Bodies Tell God's Story* by Christopher West
Related Podcasts:
- God's Design for Emotional Growth and Sexuality
- Helping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and Sexuality
- Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World
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