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This program tackles the tough subjects of porn, lust, sexual brokenness, and practical principles for living every day in sexual integrity.
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Apr 12, 2023
Apr 12, 2023
34 min
Many Christian leaders struggle silently with various sexual temptations and sin. And too many never get the help they need to heal and grow in their personal sexual integrity.
Today our guest is Jorge Suarez, co-founder of CCI Counseling, a counseling ministry that provides therapy to couples as they overcome infidelity, sexual addiction, a lack of intimacy, betrayal trauma, and intimacy disorders. Jorge especially has a heart for leaders and helping them live out their God-given purpose.
In our conversation, we talk about the four key areas where leaders (and anyone, really) need health in order to thrive:
- Emotional
- Spiritual
- Relational
- Sexual
If you are a leader or want to help Christian leaders in your life, this conversation will inspire and encourage you toward greater health and wholeness.
To connect with Jorge for further help, visit CCICounseling.com.
More Resources:
- Broken Vessels: Restoring Broken Pastors for Kingdom Use
- Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive
- The Christian Response to Moral Failure in the Church
Related Podcasts:
- Restoring Broken Pastors for Kingdom Use
- A Hopeful Response to Church Leaders Struggling with Sexual Sin
- Pastors on Porn
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Apr 4, 2023
Apr 4, 2023
33 min
In the best of circumstances, marriage is hard work. But when a couple has histories of brokenness and unresolved pain, it’s even more challenging.
Today’s guests are Travis and Adelle Graham, founders of The Noble Marriage, a ministry dedicated to helping struggling marriages discover true intimacy.
Travis and Adelle share their broken pasts (even though raised in Christian homes) and how that affected their marriage; how it led them both to build false images about themselves and their relationship. Eventually, their masks were removed in favor of pursuing an authentic relationship with Christ and each other. This is their story and a message of hope for couples wondering if their struggling relationship can be redeemed.
To learn more about Travis and Adelle and their marriage resources, visit TheNobleMarriage.com.
More Resources:
- Online Marriage Academy
- Genesis Christian Mediation
- 40 Days of Oneness by Stephen Cervantes (paid link)
Related Podcasts:
- The Recovery Process for Couples
- God, Sex, and Your Marriage
- Rebuilding Your Marriage After Sexual Betrayal
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Mar 28, 2023
Mar 28, 2023
34 min
We all have a story. And stories are one of the things we value greatly in our ministry. Why? Because it is through our stories that we connect and discover and learn.
Today’s guest is Neil Getzlow and he has quite a story to tell. He was raised in a Jewish home but eventually left his family tradition in preference of atheism. Along the way, he developed a porn and sex addiction, which made him miserable. Eventually, God chased him down and invited him to stop running and instead find rest and freedom in Christ.
Neil shares his experience of needing to learn how to be alone as a kid, how he was introduced to porn, the effect of his parent’s divorce, and how he came to believe that love and sex were basically the same things. He also shares the radical way in which God broke him out of his secret addiction and led him to a place of truth, grace, and hope.
To learn more about Neil and get his book, visit NeilGetzlow.com.
More Resources:
- Unmasked (book)
- Unmasked Podcast with Neil
- Bebroken.org/men
Related Podcasts:
- Keys to Long-Term Freedom from Unwanted Behaviors
- The Importance of Whole Man Recovery
- Becoming the Type of Man Who Doesn't Look at Porn
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Mar 21, 2023
Mar 21, 2023
35 min
For couples who want to pursue reconciliation and restoration after sexual betrayal, what does the process of recovery look like?
Today’s guest is Cat Etherington, Director of Recovery at Naked Truth Project. She helps us understand the key principles and practices that allow for the best possible results for couples wanting to heal and grow after betrayal.
There is hope for recovery in your marriage.
To learn more about Cat and her work and resources, visit http://NakedTruthProject.com.
Retreats by Naked Truth Project:
- US Grief retreat - https://www.nakedtruth.training/wholehearted-retreat-Texas
- US Couples retreat - https://www.nakedtruth.training/couples-retreat-texas
- Australia Grief Retreat - https://www.nakedtruth.training/wholehearted-grief-retreat-Australia
Previous episode (#872) with Cat: The Journey of Healing from Betrayal Trauma - https://youtu.be/WuUexC7Ucc8
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Related Podcasts:
- Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal
- Rebuilding a Healthy Marriage After Betrayal
- The Goal is Connecting
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Mar 14, 2023
Mar 14, 2023
29 min
A man recently shared, “I don’t want to live the next 20 years of my life the way I have lived the past 20 years.” This is a man who wants to get on a mission of growth and change.
In today’s episode, Stephen shares the journey of this man who wants to finish better than he started. We unpack many of the fundamental issues and principles that must be examined and worked on if long-term transformation is going to happen.
If you are a man who wants to finish life better than you started it, this episode will give you encouragement and insights to help you experience deep contentment and freedom.
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Related Podcasts:
- 8 Comments from Men Struggling to Pursue Integrity
- How Long Does Change Take?
- Struggling to Come Clean and Find Rest
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Mar 7, 2023
Mar 7, 2023
31 min
This is our 900th episode! And it’s such a delight to release this milestone episode on my birthday. I hope it blesses you as much to listen as it did for me to record it.
Today’s episode is getting back to the basics of living a life of sexual integrity. Stephen Cervantes and I have been working with men desiring greater integrity for over 20 years, and we know that a life of integrity is not static. You must be on a daily growth mission to mature.
In our conversation, we share some of our personal growth tips and many other insights we have seen that help men get on a growth mission and discover their God-sized purpose in life.
A great next step in your pursuit of greater integrity is our Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive workshop. This Friday-Sunday event will help you get down to the roots of your unwanted sexual behaviors and provide practical, powerful direction for living each day with integrity and purpose.
Learn more about Gateway to Freedom and how to register at Bebroken.org/gtf.
More Resources:
Related Podcasts:
- Keys to Long-Term Freedom from Unwanted Behaviors
- 3 Levels of Sobriety
- Insights and Action Steps for Men
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Feb 28, 2023
Feb 28, 2023
37 min
Sexual betrayal in marriage is more common than most of us would like to admit. But this terrible fracture is not incurable for couples who choose to go on a journey of healing and restoration.
Our guest today is Dr. Michael Sytsma, a licensed professional counselor, ordained minister, professor, and founder of Building Intimate Marriages.
In our conversation, Michael answers questions about the “why” of affairs, the impact of past trauma, the myth of affairs only occurring in “bad” marriages, how to know if restoration is possible, what is required for restoration, and more.
To learn more about Michael and Building Intimate Marriages, visit IntimateMarriage.org.
More Resources:
Related Podcasts:
- Rebuilding a Healthy Marriage After Betrayal
- Affair Recovery Through a Trauma Lens
- Helping Husbands and Wives Go All In
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Feb 21, 2023
Feb 21, 2023
32 min
Sex education isn’t what it used to be. But the need for good, godly sex education is at an all-time high.
Our guest on today’s program is Kristen Miele. Kristen has been educating youth on the topic of sex for 12 years and is the founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed, a training organization that specializes in God-honoring accessible sex ed for children 3 to 18 years old.
In our conversation, Kristen answers questions around the importance of sex education, what needs to be taught in sex ed, how to teach it, and various obstacles that confront parents and kids alike when learning God’s good design for sex.
To learn more about Kristen and their curriculum, visit SexEdReclaimed.com.
More Resources:
- Critical Conversations Webinar for Parents
- 7 Tips for Parents (free download)
- Honest Talk by John Fort
Related Podcasts:
- Helping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and Sexuality
- Explaining God's Design for Sex to Your Kids
- Holy Sexuality with Dr. Juli Slattery
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Feb 17, 2023
Feb 17, 2023
35 min
Everyone has experienced various emotional and mental challenges over the last three years since the Covid-19 pandemic swept the globe. Many men have faced significant mental health struggles as a result.
In today’s bonus episode, our guest is Steve Dulaney. He is a counselor in the Pacific Northwest and the director of Prodigals International, a non-profit Christian ministry focused on helping men, women and families find healing, hope, and redemption from the impact of sexual brokenness.
Our conversation is focusing on all the effects of these mental health challenges men are facing today and what hope there is for better health and relationships.
To learn more about Prodigals and their resources, visit ProdigalsInternational.org.
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Related Podcasts:
- Understanding Your "Flipped-Out" Brain
- Do Your Emotional Beliefs Lead You to Connection or Disconnection?
- Healing Your Brain
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Feb 14, 2023
Feb 14, 2023
31 min
Everyone has a core fear that gets woven into their soul from childhood. It tends to drive everything, from thoughts to behaviors.
But God created us in His image, and He is love. His Word tells us that “perfect (mature) love drives out fear.” (1 John 4:18) So, how can we move from being fear-driven to being love-driven?
In this episode, we unpack this question and provide insights and tips to understand your fears and respond to them in healthy, redemptive ways that benefit you and your relationships.
More Resources:
- Untangling Emotions by Groves and Smith
- Grace-Based Recovery
- Find a Counselor
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- Overcoming the Fear that Lives in My Head
- 50 Things to Do When Your Core Fear Gets Triggered
- Finding Rest by Speaking Out Your Deepest Fear
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